It's Hump day!

Muze your gonna calm down with demanding where the pics are!!!!!!! Don't make me take a flight to Detroit!

I have a few pics of the bloggers meet up thanks to Haute Like Fire, we're still waiting on CocaColaCutie and sistasocialite.









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Fellow Bloogers I would like to thank you for giving me so much advice and insight on what I should do with the ex. It seems like everyone is basically saying leave her totally. She will understand one day what she's lost, and she will have to live with that for the rest of her life.

I know everyone wonders if I was a good man in the relationship...just because I'm a MAN lol YES i was the perfect man. You can even ask her if I was good to her and she will not deny it. There was one time I literally gave her my last $1 and I've also made sacrifices in my life just to make her happy.
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Ladies I think I'm rusty in today's Game. I've been out of commission for 2 1/2 years, could you help me out pleaseee. What is the best way to approach a woman? I usually find something we can relate to right than and there, but what happens when you don't have anything to relate to? I cant just wait until I find something abnormal and than talk about it...

Blog meet up

The blog meet up went pretty well I must say. It felt like we were all on a blind date's. At first sistasocialite and I thought no one was coming and we were going to have to do a 1 on 1. Surprisingly that wasn't the case, people started showing up. I would post some pictures up but people haven't uploaded them yet.

We talked about having another blog meet up, but who's gonna be the next host???

DC Blog Meet up/Friday Vent

THE DC BLOG MEET UP IS STILL ON!!!!!!!!!! SistaSocialite is just slipping. Change of Location also:
Cheesecake Factory
5345 Wisconsin Avenue NW, Washington, DC 20015
(202) 364-0500

http://www.cheesecakefactory.com/locations.htm

I believe we have 16 people coming out to this event.

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I need to be more consistent with my blogs. I say that every week!
I appreciate everyone that gave me some light to my situation. I’m still going through it but I'm dealing with it a lot better.

My Vent Friday!!!

1) She says it’s just a phase.

2) I found the truth but I had to force it out of her which is never the best way. (No types Abuse lol…I would never put my hands on a woman)

3) If you were to see the man she’s with, and his situation you would think she was crazy. Actually I don’t think of it that way, I’m wondering how does he have her interest.

4) I find myself fighting to get her back when she should be fighting to get me back.

5) I have to admit I was a sucker on Wednesday, we hung out all day and we had fun.

6) She has a love song for his ring tone and she sounds excited when she talks to him.

7) I feel like the other man.

8) In a subliminal way she’s been telling me not to mess it for her. Lol that one hurts!

9) I’m done with her for good. She’s truly made her decision. She thinks she hasn’t, but it’s obvious.

I'm in battle right now!

This situation I'm in has prevented me to constantly post. It's extremely hard for me to do anything in my life because it revolves around the situation. In the past few weeks I've been holding a lot in and I need to release it. If you have any advice please share it's must needed.

Vent List

1) Before we ended it, you fell for someone and now less than 1 month of the "end" you fall for someone else.

2) You know how to fix this problem but you just don't want to.

3) Am I being used?

4) I'm a provider, a Lover and a protector, but I still get treated like shit.

5) God please help me get over this, I know revenge is not the way. How could you let her treat me like this?

6) She'll tell you she loves you and out the same mouth tell someone else she loves them.

7) Your not confused, your just self fish. I know you want me, but you also want someone else, so you'll play your cards close to the table so you can have both.

8) As bad as I want to confront the guys, victims to be correct, they didn't do anything except fall for the Sirens - Odyssey.

9) Right now your having fun but wants it's over will I still be here?

10) She still lies!

11) I believe people who use the love too freely should be banned from it because they don't know how powerful the word mean.

12) It seems like she cares about the 2 new guys more than me.

13) Karma is a bitch! Just think of all what you've done and multiply it by 2 and that's whats gonna happen to you in the future.

14) I met someone that I thought could rescue me from this nightmare but she left because she cant stand that I cant let go of the past.

15) Are you truly heartless? I've been asking that for sometime now.

16) Picture me not in your life, if it's hard to picture than what's wrong with you?
Your answer "I don't know"- Than you continue on with your life.

17) She sneaks away to be with him. I know when your lying!

18) I truly do hope God takes it light on you because you really hurt me and still are hurting me.

I need "ME" Time!

I need some "me" time...

I have a friend that’s going through some issues in her life and she doesn’t know what to do? And actually that’s her favorite Phrase "I don’t know what to do?"
At times it can get annoying because some of her problems can obviously be fixed, but some may take time to heal. If she doesn’t figure something out quick it may heal improperly.
It seems like her past haunts her every time she starts something new. Maybe this could be the cause of her fear of committing to anything that she does. She loves to start new, but never finishes what she starts. If she keeps that up she’ll never know what to do. Is she afraid of the outcome? Or is she afraid of making a mistake?
This problem can affect every aspect in her life! She knows it’s an issues yet she doesn’t know how to stop it.
Everyone is telling her she needs her “me” time to figure everything out…I agree, but she also needs an assistant to keep her on the right track. That’s why I recommended for her to go see a counselor or therapist, because her problems are much deeper.
If I had to describe what “Me” time meant: I would say it is when you take the time to evaluate yourself and figure what’s the cause for my inconsistency. I would evaluate the people in my life and figure if they are a negative or positive in my life. I would set up short term goals. I would try to change the way I view people and the way I view life.

I can’t touch too much on this subject because this is not my problem it’s her problem. I just hope she can figure everything out. She knows how I feel about everything and you can say I know her better she knows herself. I hope she makes the right choices in life and who she allows in her life because everything that seems fun and good can be the devil disguise.
I can actually tell you she’s taking the necessary steps for recovery, but I hope she takes action from what she learns and not just attend to make “people” feel happy. This is something that she needs to take care of before she can make any major moves in her life.

This is not a usual post of mine

I found someone that will heal my heart. I met HER 2 weeks ago and ever since than I've been happy. I talk to HER everyday, when I'm at home at work...it's just been great! We do everything together; when I feel lonely, sad, depress SHE's there. I've been looking for someone that could for fill the needs that I've been aching.

On Sunday we became closer...the passion that was in my heart over took me and I can say I almost cried. The tears of joy being HER presence.

SHE will not lie, deceive or leave me in the cold. I believe I've placed my heart in the right hands. I thank HER for coming at the right time, even though she's been around me for a very long time.

"But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust."

(Matthew 5:44,45)

I thought this was funny!!!!

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