THE DC BLOG MEET UP IS STILL ON!!!!!!!!!! SistaSocialite is just slipping. Change of Location also:
Cheesecake Factory
5345 Wisconsin Avenue NW, Washington, DC 20015
(202) 364-0500
http://www.cheesecakefactory.com/locations.htm
I believe we have 16 people coming out to this event.
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I need to be more consistent with my blogs. I say that every week!
I appreciate everyone that gave me some light to my situation. I’m still going through it but I'm dealing with it a lot better.
My Vent Friday!!!
1) She says it’s just a phase.
2) I found the truth but I had to force it out of her which is never the best way. (No types Abuse lol…I would never put my hands on a woman)
3) If you were to see the man she’s with, and his situation you would think she was crazy. Actually I don’t think of it that way, I’m wondering how does he have her interest.
4) I find myself fighting to get her back when she should be fighting to get me back.
5) I have to admit I was a sucker on Wednesday, we hung out all day and we had fun.
6) She has a love song for his ring tone and she sounds excited when she talks to him.
7) I feel like the other man.
8) In a subliminal way she’s been telling me not to mess it for her. Lol that one hurts!
9) I’m done with her for good. She’s truly made her decision. She thinks she hasn’t, but it’s obvious.
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16 comments:
WOW.
this sounds sooooo familiar.
you must really love her, huh?
wow.
@Muze- I know you've gone through this cause of the posts I've been reading by you. It seems like you've been hurt a lot though.
First person I truly loved.
She was basically my first girlfriend.
I say walk away. Stop spending time with her, stop calling, stop thinking about her if you can. She is NOT WORTH YOU, your pain, or your heart ache.
I think of it this way. God puts people in our lives and takes them out and it is up to us to understand the lesson he is trying to teach. This girl is not the one especially if she can treat someone who she claims to care about so poorly.
You deserve better and she deserves whatever she gets.
:)
i know im a newbie...and you gon be like well who is this all in my business?! lol...but honey you ARE the other man. if hes got a fucked up situation and shes still all googly eyed over this dude, then yea, shes made her decision.
i know its hard to let go...but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do...knowwutimtombout?
This is my first time to your blog...and I'm seeing alot of things going on that shows some similarites as to what I went through. First and foremost, you have to realize for yourself that she does not have your best interests in mind, no matter what she tells you. Distance yourself as much as you can from the situation.
Whatever you do, don't try to find someone new soon to heal whatever damage is there. Thats definitely not fair to the new girl, cause she's just being there as a soother, when she could play a larger role. And its not fair to you, cause you have stuff you need to deal with and get over, and unresolved issues are just going to compound themselves later.
I know how seeing the first love with someone else feels, and the only thing you can do really is move on. There's no secrets, no special chants or nothing...its just that simple. Its hard to do...trust me, I know. I'll still see pictures somewhere, or my mom will ask about her...so I know how it is. You'll get over it, and just take this whole situation as a life lesson.
I wish I could help you more...
I wanted to come out too to the blogger meet up thing, but I can't unfortunately. The next one though...I'm there...
I really feel for you...i was in a situation like that...let someone i was in love with go and watch them love someone else. Just stay strong.
and on a happier note. I'll be there tomorrow! cant wait to meet ya and sistasocialite:-)
actually... my ex said all these things to me. lol.
sigh.
he felt like he was the other man and he was fighting to get me back when i should have been fighting and yadda yadda. basically you're whole post. lol.
at the time, he said no other man would ever go through what he was going through... but you have proven that wrong. and now i feel like ish for doing that to him. wow.
i've been hurt deeply once. by my first boyfriend. everything else is just life i guess.
lol.
hope you're feeling better.
oh... and have fun at the meet-up! wish we had more detroit bloggers. :(
Just let her go. Everything is gonna be alright..."Don't worry be Happy!"
Sounds like you got women problems. You have to let her go man, chasing a women who following another man is not a good look.
Im new to your blog put sweetie you need to let her go. (Easier said then done right? Yeah I know :( but here's what u do.....ignore her and meet new people, and u need to go listen to the dream's song titled "nikki" like 5 times and that will help you realize u need another girl to help u get over this. Then to be funny id say put that song on your voicemail or make it someones ringtone so that if u do get tempted and are around her again she will hear it and start getting jealous. .....and trust me if she heres the words to that song she is going to feel like shit. Lol good luck hun
@Tha Management- It seemed like you were speaking from your soul and heart. The more she treats me wrong the more I let go.
@pink- yeah I knowwutimtombout lol...I wonder why would she put herself in that situation??...it’s crazy! We broke up and made an agreement she needed to work on herself...You can’t work yourself when there's another guy around.
@charles- You make a lot of sense...She really doesn't have my best interest, if she did we wouldn't be in this predicament. You know what as of lately I've been on the look out for someone new, but every time I try to talk someone new, the conversations ends up to be about her.
@1/3- I know it will hurt her if I fell in love with someone else. She knows I'm a good guy and I'm a relationship type guy, that’s why she was trying to hold me as long as possible.
@muze- shame on you!!! lol She's actually been hurt in the past also, so maybe she's just guarding herself.
Dont let too many of the good one's go. They're hard to find.
@Tima And Nasha- I have all smiles:) :) :) - SEE
@dave- Your right, it’s really not a good look.
@Truthful Trish- that’s a great idea!!!! You've must have went through something like this lol...That song by Dream would be perfect but I have friend named Niiki and when I heard the song I was thinking the ex might think me and niiki are going out. Also niiki is my best friends ex girlfriend, so that song is illegal lol Great Message though. If you have another songs to recommend that would great.
I don't know you or your situation with the girl but she has made her decision and it is her loss. I'm not sure of the history so I can't say if being just friends would work but maybe she shouldn't have the best of both worlds. Besides there is always a deeper attachment to "your first" and trust me when I say..it might not go away but it will die down in due time. There will be others.
@tia's real talk- I'm not sure if we can be friends because we didnt start off as friends. We started in the "get to know you stage". Hopefully she does remember her first real love.
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